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Motherhood: Who made me do?

In recent years, this sentence I said and thought many times, I must be honest and mention that it is a bit 'that I do not.
I remember the times I found myself looking out the kitchen window, the only room in the house that I live as a refuge. Seee mica and there I was cooking ... I was smoking and to get away from reality that I was pretty close.
With my husband have chosen to become parents, or rather we choose to have sex without precautions and wait for the beautiful world of parents take us with them.
How was romantic to think of our future son .. and how beautiful it was buying all those little things for them to wear, think sex and think of more absurd names. (The best that came to mind was Vespasian, because I love the names Roman and Hector ... but fortunately for the puppy, we opted for Vittorio)
Ma .. and big but is loooong, once the baby arrived so we wanted to, unfortunately we had a cold shower which lasted about two years.

for me and for my husband, it was a nightmare that we were not prepared, and although we told him they had in some way, we never wanted to believe that it could be so difficult, tiring, exhausting and alienating, depressing, aberrant, destructive, ante ante ante ..!

Little Hun was a screamer and a professional sgrufolotore noisy even during sleep, so if you could call and full of adoration of being in his arms as he had to walk swaying from side to side and obviously also alternating up and down, absolutely against any supine or slightly tilted type the fantastic bouncers; inveterate eater who never stray for five minutes to feeds that were to be made every 2.5 hours and up to his year and two months old!

Just to name a few of the tips that I have been given little to reassure the Hun:

"make him a nice bath with a scented soap, hot-towel and lots of pampering, which calm "
you have a demon that is the only wet finger in holy water? well, a rookie compared all'unno!

" let him get some 'air with a walk in a wheelchair, so look at the things, you get tired and when we got home he sleeps a bit 'deeper'
I walked for days and nobody has ever seen awake (stinking) and the observation that made me most was "as good." You had to be there when crossed the threshold of the house and I just managed to close the door wide open, his mouth was already in an inhuman scream, inconsolable (see walk-up-side-down the other side-swinging), and with a tone that makes a ummm blowjob Ricciarelli.

"is not that you that you transmit your anxiety and nervousness?"
Who me?? I that I do not wash for two days, have not eaten for two minutes and throw myself on the toilet and sleep in peace, I who have no clothes ironed and the house is a merdaio? I do not clot with my husband for fear to get pregnant again? I also wonder that my mother-in-law (of course it was not) to come and lend a hand? IO? IO? nervous? naaaaaaaaaa

That kitchen window I know every crack in every crack and keeps all my thoughts at that time when I thought we had done it to those who do. How easy life was before, my husband and I with one thousand of our hobby, our trips, our evenings with friends to play some games in our case and past Sunday from a nap and a nap.
I have often thought that I would not be more outgoing, I saw that life as a tunnel with no way out and watched with envy (and for me it is a very bad thing because of my not have this kind of feeling) the other mothers helped by the mother in law and their parents. I happened to meet moms who the evening before had gone to the movies with her boyfriend or the afternoon they were able to go to the hairdresser. I tried this and sometimes I still feel a strong envy of the moral and physical support that many mothers and many fathers have.
My mother has a good relationship with children and apart from the first two months that has helped us, was then secluded and still is low profile, and my mother-in-law and my father put anything before my son, but before the relatives are loving grandparents. In short, our first two years as parents have not been easy.
It 'difficult to accept that, however much we love your child with a love that grows every day, you might think you have made a big cock.

Luckily everything goes but I know, and I know because I am the first not to have thought, for anyone who is experiencing this, it is hard to believe. At some point you back to life, and who first and who later. We have spent more than two years but many parents know that they put even a few months.

Now that my son has three years later, I spend some time and teach me things potergli bonus or just talk with him, I look back and think, "was it really so difficult?"
And here usually starts thinking about a second child :-)

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A child is better than a dog

Ok, the title could certainly be weighed in a negative way, but I'm sure you read calm.
I remember the winter three years ago, when my Vittorio puppy had even four months. The first months after its birth, with quite a few 'in advance of the expected date of delivery, were hard, cold gripped and could be almost exclusively at home. I remember that year we spent about Heating € 600 every two months! As I remember it .. sigh sigh .. hello hello pennies!

Days go by and the summer begins to peep like crazy and spirited start to wander around my neighborhood, the neighborhood you can take long walks in solitude and without the risk of being invested or by a machine or an old lady who passes you captains if you were transparent. (I call them old ladies turtles .. not the slow, but because they are shrouded by their carapace, and nothing touches them and nothing disturbs their ultimate goal)

But we know that pulls the heat out of the house even more mothers reluctant and the days passed I began to see shapes that are familiar from a distance. The performance of those shadows was similar to mine, staggering, and absent with the absolute lack of grace. Oh yes, anyone who has a child knows that the grace is lost when a tadpole called sperm slips of bullying in an egg called egg. The thing that most
toghether them and me was the strange, incessant, rhythmic movement that we gave to strollers tranquilizzare for the inhabitants of these small cockpits.

At that time I figured out how to recognize the personality of the mothers according to the type of "scecheramento" that gave the means of transport in which he was "lying" their infant. Lying is an understatement to say that I'm poretto the boy tossed from one side of Cullotta.
1. Some people scechera forward-back-forward-backward and the change may be slower or faster, some moms do it so fast that once the baby's head touches the cradle and once with his feet.
2. Some people scechera sideways so that the cerebellum she shut the puppy is strong enough to momentarily stun him and lull, here too there is the variable speed.
3. And last but not least, these are the true mothers and professionals, take the scecheramento Oscillating circulatory yes, they can synchronize an endless series of movements and the child, not understanding anything, remains powerless to see the world without understand that there will always be so!

The loneliness that comes early is a solitude difficult to explain, because you're entering a new community, but those of the mothers still feel you really belong to the category of pregnant mothers or worse in the category of women, single women.
The emotions you feel can not be understood, or at least that's what I think almost all mothers, of course I'm including in this category.
And then the sight of other "animals" like me, gave me the strength to get out of my chronic shyness and often seen as haughty and distancing, I found the courage to approach 'ste other poor women with excuses and sometimes ridiculous. Since that moment I was totally taken by me itself and what was happening to me, well I found a way to "find lovely" children of these mothers.
Not that I care little children of the other crabs, but the need to exchange experiences and find comfort was strong enough to give me the courage to look at children who were not mine.

By the time I learned: 1
. that of poor mothers like me there are many
2. that mothers who need to know there is someone who has the worst of his son, there are many
3. that of mothers who are interested in really your son, there are few
4. that of mothers with which to grow emotionally, there are many
5: being a mother that can help open a new circle of friends
6. that a child is better than a dog to socialize

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Marriage and the fortune, the subtle difference etymological

Today I pose a controversial issue: the difference etymology (or origin of the name) between marriage and property.
It 's a banality to which, however, had never given any importance. This morning my husband was reading a book and asked me this dilemma.
Will I have a passion for the origins of words, but this comparison amuses me and I'll ask myself to your attention.

We start from the etymological meaning of marriage (source from wikipedia)
"The word marriage is derived from the Latin matrimonium , namely the union of two words Latin mater, mother, mother and munus , task, duty, matrimonium the Roman law was a "task of the mother", meaning the marriage as a bond that made it legitimate children born from the union. "

of course I went to look up the etymology of heritage and just think '? Is not covered and you will be sent to the word marriage.
In any case, its meaning and origin is this:
" The concept of heritage (Latin patrimonium derived from pater, 'father', and munus, 'task', with the first meaning of 'father's task' and then with what of 'things belonging to his father') is used in law and economics, with meanings not identical. "

What do you think?" We were never focused on this "subtle" difference in terminology?

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First Aid: Learn to read the warning signs and intervene

I believe that no parent wants to be in a position to use these notions, but to know first aid for children can be one way to protect the health of our children.
here to follow a series of recommendations , some really elementary, but could make a difference, start with knowing how to assess the child's symptoms:
- to keep in hand maybe on the refrigerator, the number of the pediatrician, the number of emergency medical and pediatric ward of the hospital nearest you. The number of pediatrician can help you, if there has obviously left the phone and keep it on, the number of medical service is essential, particularly in the night hours. We personally have used a few times and gave us a telephone consultation, you describe the symptoms and if they find that is severe, we recommend things to do. The 118 is a telephone number that can give you help, even before the arrival of an ambulance or doctor on duty.

- learn how to assess the child's symptoms it is essential to carefully observe the behavior the child. Obviously if the baby is newborn, every symptom may be cause for concern.

In any case, the symptoms that generally should arouse suspicion and lead to an immediate intervention (hospital or physician) are:
- the child is not alert, his gaze is vacant and does not react to stimuli
- the child has which tend to bluish lips, this symptom points to a lack of sufficient oxygen in the blood
- the baby cries constantly and for no apparent reason than the normal behavior
- great difficulty breathing or fast breathing as the breath of a dog, do not worry if has a simple cold or a little 'cough
- the child has a sore stomach for a long time, try to press at the umbilicus and see if the fabric is stiff or swollen.
- the child has a fever of over 40 and for a long time in this case pay attention to the mobility of the neck. Make sure the child moves the neck with ease and without pain in this way: keep the child in front of you and piegategli head slightly down (chin to his chest so to speak) and if you feel pain, go to the hospital immediately. Obviously do not take into account the simple stiff neck, the pain of which we speak is excruciating.

brief overview of some events that may occur

Allergic reaction, anaphylaxis Normally
allergic reactions, which may be by contact or by ingestion, develop in mild and not too worrying.
A severe allergic reaction usually occurs when the subject, in this case the child, meet for the second time with that element. You can have an allergic reaction to medications, foods such as shellfish, strawberries, through transfusions or insect bites. The
symptoms which may appear immediately or even after half an hour are:
- swelling on the tongue and throat, both local and very itchy eyes, excessive esecrezione nose after sneezing, difficulty breathing, heart rate accelerated , What do fainting
:
- call your doctor or 118
- put the baby on the floor with your legs raised to facilitate the flow of blood to the brain
- in case of insect bite, sting and may remove any administered an antihistamine dose in children
- to control the breath and heartbeat

Poisoning
Especially children under the age of 3 years may be at risk because their curiosity leads them to ingest any what they have on hand.
poisoning in children usually occurs in the home for the ingestion of detergents, soaps, solvents, insecticides, glues or carbon monoxide. The
symptoms may be:
- convulsions, drowsiness different from the norm, difficulty breathing, difficulty with coordination of movements, abdominal pain, localized burning, blood in stool
What to do:
- the only thing to do is turn to take some poison control center or hospital that can give you the right suggestions. This is a link where to find the poison centers are always open ( click here)
- it is not advisable to ingest the baby's milk or egg
- you can bring a sample of faeces or vomit and have them analyzed to understand the source of the poisoning

Seizures with fever
If the child under the age of 6 years, is likely to have episodes of febrile convulsion. Being in front of your child with seizures is terrible, but fortunately, the rule does not involve any brain damage. Convusione episodes do not last a few minutes. If it last more than ten minutes, take your child to the hospital. In any case, after the episode, ask your doctor ever. The
symptoms may be:
- loss of consciousness, stiffening of the body, uncontrolled movements, damming of the eyes, eyes turned
Don'ts:
- do not shake the child
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not cover it - do not put anything in the mouth
What to do:
- lightened the clothing of the child to make him lower the fever
- put the baby in a position comfortable for breathing, possibly side
- if you put patches on the forehead and let the wet sponge on the body with warm water
- only after the convulsion can give antipyretic drugs to lower fever
- removed from the mouth can have anything like the pacifier


Man they meet conditions that may occur with children, I will update this post. But if anyone has any news on this, feel free to write.

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a fun

Near the beginning of my journey in this blog, I wrote a post that spoke of children's breakfast , and indeed for breakfast maybe a little 'different is that my son Vittorio.
For a series of lucky coincidences I came in contact with Francesca, who has a passion for the blog more fun and ironoci network ( Panzallaria ) and who is also the of Kellogg's blog.
His posts and interviews in which bloggers from all over Italy, are very amusing and curious.
I was lucky enough to be interviewed and to give voice to my ideas and visions, in this post
The nice thing about this blog of Kellogg's is that if any mother wants to talk about his approach to children's breakfast, he can do! In short, the ability to talk is open to all!
If you want to attend an interview, write an email to: ripartidallacolazione @ gmail. com and you could be one of the entries on this blog!

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mouth breathing: my son's nose just do not use it!

My Vittorio puppy has more than 3 years and I think I've seen him use his nose to breathe delicious, maybe a couple of times!
Sure, winter may be cold but in summer?? Obviously, his breathing influsce lot about the quality of their sleep.
Imagine always sleep with his mouth open, all night ... The least you will have is the feeling of having a path of sand in the mouth, right?
Going for pediatricians and specialists, I was told that large tonsils, large not to be construed as enlarged tonsils, but its great. In fact, looking carefully in the mouth, we noticed that his throat is almost completely full of tonsil! I must say that is a little 'impression

:-) In any case, if they interfere with swallowing or another, fortunately can be removed with a small operation. Why

I'm saying this? because as always, as I browse online I come across interesting news that I wish to speak to whoever reads me. On the site

mammaepapa.it you can read their "pills of Pediatrics" to which they are registered through newsletters.
Today I received a note on their news adenoids that are often associated also with the tonsils.
generally thought that the bad breath is mainly due to adenoids, and their malfunction.
The news they give is that it is not always due to this. Often, bad breath and then breathe through the nose, is a case linked to prolonged use of pacifiers or bottles, other motivation could be the malpositioning of the tongue during swallowing.

In this regard, since I have a sister speech pathologist, this disease is called atypical swallowing and easy care with exercises appropriate data from the speech therapists.

Well, I've come to the conclusions (which must then be confirmed by a pediatrician) that Victor might breathe primarily with your mouth, not so much because the adenoids but ..... ummm Ehmmm pacifier held up to two years and 10 months ?!?!?! Ok, I know that was removed before ... but because it was convenient!
We called him the "cap", just because attappava the haunting cries of Victor
:-)
ps the photo is not that I put in the mouth of Victor, which has only one of two large tonsils

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